Meet Stefani
Stefani's journey has been a tapestry woven with threads of compassion and resilience, spanning most of her adult life as she dedicated herself to serving others. Beginning in her late teens, she took her first steps into the world of caregiving as a Certified Nursing Assistant. Over the years, her path expanded, encompassing roles as a guardianship advocate, EMT, patient advocate, crisis counselor, and life coach. Each experience deepened her passion for meeting people right where they are, guiding them to transform their dreams into tangible realities.
In 2010, Stefani faced a pivotal moment that turned her world upside down—a life-changing medical event that forced her to chart an entirely new course. As a mother of two medically complex children, she found herself clinging to her faith as she learned to navigate the intricate labyrinth of the healthcare system. Juggling the roles of patient, parent, and former medical professional, she developed a unique, 360-degree perspective on the complex care journey. This experience not only equipped her to advocate effectively for her children but also empowered her to help other patients and families face their own challenges with courage and confidence.
Stefani’s voice resonates in boardrooms, conferences, and esteemed institutions like Harvard University Medical School. She has spoken at state conferences, patient gatherings, churches, and national meetings. In these moments, she feels most alive—not merely recounting her own story but igniting a fire in others to see the purpose and promise woven into their own narratives.
Stefani holds a profound belief that every opportunity to support someone on their journey is a precious gift. This conviction inspires her to infuse everything she does with intentionality. Whether through her songs, writing, artistic endeavors, ministries, life coaching, public speaking, or even a simple conversation, Stefani approaches each moment with the aim of sowing seeds of purpose, peace, courage, and hope. Central to her life is her faith, a guiding beacon that continuously illuminates her path and nurtures her unwavering commitment to growing and empowering others on their journeys.
Driven by an unwavering passion for uplifting those around her, Stefani has laid the foundation for The Hope Refinery. This initiative reflects her commitment to finding innovative and compassionate ways to help individuals bridge the gap between where they are and where they aspire to be. Through her work, Stefani continues to inspire hope, nurture resilience, and illuminate the path for others on their journeys.
What Is Life Coaching?
A Life Coach is someone who partners with you on your transformational journey.
They don’t tell you what to do, they help you to see the things you already know, but haven’t yet discovered about yourself.
They help you nurture your hopes and dreams, help you realize and strategize, lead you forward, and help you build a future that brings you peace, joy, and HOPE.
Sometimes we get so lost in the chaos that we lose focus on the things that really matter.
It isn’t until we are able to step back and look through a wider lens that we are able to see the countless paths we can take toward
HOPE.
My Promise To You
I will always….
Honor Your Journey
Respect Your Boundaries
Provide Gentle & Honest Observations
Help You Create Achievable Expectations
Give You a Safe Space to Grow in
Help Guide You Through Your Transformational Goals
Support Your Needs
Be a Joyful Partner on Your Journey
What Kind of Help Do I Need?
What’s the Difference?
There are many avenues that lead to transformational hope.
Life Coaches and Therapists are two of the most common avenues travelers use to take their journey.
It is important to understand the different ways in which each profession helps you reach your transformational goals.
Therapy - Looking back and trying to heal
Coaching - Looking ahead and deciding to grow.
